School

I know everyone has been waiting for an update about how we are doing and how the school year is going. Actually, things could not be going much better. I am constantly amazed at how Katie is adjusting as, well as the other kids. Both Jim and I say that we are blessed. That is not to say that we haven't had any stresses but, the level of frustration is not any higher than what we would expect in everyday life (especially with eight kids.) School has been our biggest obstacle but, that was to be expected. Katie does not love it but, I feel that right now it is the best place for her. Her teacher is nice and so are her classmates and I think if we give it a month or so she will enjoy it a lot more. She did refuse to get dressed one morning but, we got past it and later that night I explained that if she gave me a hard time again in the morning that she would not be able to go to soccer or gymnastics. Yes, she is in soccer and gymnastics and she loves it. If you are wondering how I "explained it", I acted it out. So, for the last few mornings, I have woke to "Morning mommy." Katie can do about 75% of her school work which amazes me. She does not speak much English but, she recognizes her alphabet and she is starting to understand more conversation. She also seems to be a strong Math student so, like the rest of my kids she likes Math and really does not care for English. The only melt downs she has had was over going to school and not being able to start gymnastics on the first day. Lizzy has taken gymnastics for over a year so, I wanted to show Katie what it was. She immediately wanted to go out there and broke into tears when I told her she had to wait until next time. So, so far so good. We will enjoy it while it lasts. Now, everyone wants to know if she is speaking English. Well.......the truth is no, not much but, she can sing the songs in HighSchool Musical and HairSpray. She also likes Annie. So, we are forgetting about language tapes and watching musicals. It is amazing, how quickly she learned the words to those songs. Oh, and the theatrics that go with them. She still does not seem to want anything to do with anyone who speaks Mandarin and I am hoping that I can change her mind about that but, we will let it go for now. From talking to others it seems to be part of the process. She has no problem speaking to me in Mandarin although I am confident that she understands that I do not understand. Although, I am starting to. So, like I said....things could not be going much better. Now that I have my camera back I will try and post some more updates soon.

My Camera is Broke

Yes, my new camera is broke. I told you that I had trouble with it at the orphanage. I thought that I had wore out the battery but, now it will not take pictures but you can still hear the motor, it just does not focus. So, I paid all this money to have a nice camera instead I have something else to deal with. So......I will just have to give a report and not add pictures until I figure something else out. Katie and Lizzy went to the doctor today and all is well. They weigh exactly the same and Lizzy is only taller by a 1/2 of an inch. I guess so much for being the "Big Sister."

Also, I discovered that Katie can count to 11 without any problem, she knows her colors in English, and she can put the alphabet in order using cards (even though she has not said them for us.) She does not say many words in English and yet she can sing all the songs in High School Musical. School starts Monday and though I wish I had another week, I think everything will be okay.

If anyone has had any trouble it is Lizzy, I think her feelings are hurt a little. I have been trying hard to show her some good attention but, I guess it is just hard. Katie can be kind of strong about what she wants and she is clingy and I do not think that Lizzy is used to either one of those things. I think it will be fine, given a little time. It has only been 1 week so far. It amazes me that Katie has been through so many changes in a week. I guess I need to remember so has Lizzy. Ben and Noah seem unaffected and I guess they still assume the world revolved around them. Noah starts kindergarten next week and I can hardly believe it. He is so cute and he is doing great with his alphabet, Thanks to Big Mama for helping. Well, the next week will be a busy one. Wish us luck.

Finally Home

After a long flight, we are finally home. So, far so good. Katie has had a little bit of an attitude since we left from the hotel. I do not blame her at all, she has been through alot in the last couple of days and for the most part she has done real well. There are quite a few of us to get used to. The boys are home from school and we are looking to spending some time together. I thought everyone might enjoy seeing a few more pictures of our trip.

Jaclyn brought Becka to see Katie and it did not go like we expected. Becka is really sweet but, Katie would not pay any attention to her. I hope that she just had a bad day and that she will be happier to see her next time. It was nice that Jaclyn brought her kids over though. In the long run I think it will be nice that they can be friends. I just have to remember that my goals need to be focused on the long run.

Katie really wants to get her ears pierced. It is surprising how well she can communicate something when she wants to. So, the next couple weeks will be really busy with things like school starting and doctors appointments. I am anxious to see how well she fairs with all the change. School starts in 10 days so I will keep up the blog so everyone can see how we are all doing. Please say a prayer for us that all goes well.

Time to Fly

The typhoon came through over night and did not have much impact on us. We got up in the morning and went to our AIT appt. Janel and I went and left the rest of them in the room. It took longer than we expected but, everything went smoothly. We even met a very nice couple there that was from Utah. They were also staying at the Howard Plaza. I had met the guy the day before in the lobby because he brought a letter back from the orphanage for Katie. Jaclyn’s daughter had written her. When we got back to the hotel we decided to head off to the zoo even though it was sprinkling. Katie had written to me before we picked her up and requested that I take her to the zoo and I did not want to let her down. It was a bust, we did manage to eat at McDonald’s but, it was just too wet to be at the zoo. We did not see a lot of animals but there were a lot of beautiful plants. After a brief stay there we decided to head back to the room.

Later we decided to have one more adventure and chose Snake Alley and the Lungshan Temple. We also decided to try the MRT again. Well the MRT is not bad during slower hours but it was now 6:30 and rush hour. We voted afterwards that it was a toss between which was worse the taxis or the MRT. We were glad that we had chosen to see the temple. It was beautiful. Then we were off to the market across the street Snake Alley. I have to say it was an interesting location for a seedy market.
The kids enjoyed seeing the bizarre things like the snakes in cages(and on the ground.) There were vendors selling all sorts of interesting snake parts. The kids had scrolls made with their names on it and we bought a few gifts. I tried the pearl milk tea again and I like the one from the Shilin Night Market much better.
After that it was time to head back to our rooms for our last time. We had the calmest taxi ride back (a big relief.)

The next morning we woke and prepared to leave. Katie was tired and a little sad. I have to admit that I was a little sad for her. Again, you can have such a range of emotions and things just do not seem clear sometimes but, after breakfast we both felt better and ready to head off to the airport.

Dawson had slept better and seemed to be in good spirits before the flight. Janel had arranged to have drivers come and pick us up to take us the airport. People had recommended Nick and Janel really enjoyed the drive with him. He answered some questions and said that she could email him anytime if she had a question. She got a kick out of the fact that he said that he wanted to be a cowboy when he retired.

We had all dreaded the airplane ride but, it turned out to be quite nice. Dawson was perfect the entire flight and never complained once. Katie seemed to really enjoy the flight also and her and Lizzy sat by each other. It was a long flight and no one likes sitting for that long but, the kids gave us no reason to complain.

the typhoon

Yes, I said typhoon. Now this may not be as ironic to everyone but, we are from Florida. It is not as big a deal as I might have imagined though. At first, I thought it was a joke when Jackie posted to me about it because we have not been able to find any mention of it on the computer. They have now posted signs in the lobby. It is supposed to hit way south of us but, still a typhoon is still not what I wanted. We are hoping to go to the zoo today. So, I am praying that it clears up just a little. Also, we are hoping that AIT is open today so, that we can get Katie and Dawson's Visas. We had also planned to see Snake Alley. I guess we will just have to see. We are feeling a little more rested here. I am not sure what kind of night Janel had though as I have not gotten a report yet.

Dawson is doing much better though. He is active but, is generous too. He loves to share. We have bought some movies and have been watching them at night. All of the kids have been watching them. My kids may all come home speaking Mandarin. I still have no clue but, not speaking English here has not been an issue.

What is an issue is the desserts and food in general. I have never seen so many desserts or pastry shops in my life. Though I have read the reviews I would have to disagree with them because most of what I have eaten (as far as desserts go) have been really good. No, we have to discuss the other food seriously. I think I could write a couple more episodes to the Bizarre Foods of Taiwan show that was just on. Lets start with my fried octopus balls. Let us just say that it was interesting. Yes, I ate octopus balls which in itself was not the interesting part. What was is the fact that the little shavings looking stuff on top moved (see picture.) Lets just say that the food has been on of the most entertaining parts of our trips. By the way, DON"T EAT STUFF THAT MOVES WHEN YOU COME TO TAIWAN! We will leave it at that.

Another issue is how busy everyone is. Oh my goodness, there are not words to describe. I am not sure of the sense of that is exaggerated by the fact of how many people are here but, I am a small town girl and I think that I would like to keep it that way. It has been an amazing trip and I have found the people in Taiwan to be very warm and friendly. Taxi's are another issue and I am thinking I much prefer the fact that I can transport my children around in my suburban. It is not to say that the drivers have not been nice but they can almost make you dizzy at times. One of ours even had a tv in the front of his taxi, even the kids did not think that was a good idea.

Back to the food. I know, food again. It really gets me how cheap it is to eat at the night markets or even the malls but, the hotel is entirely different circumstance. For convience we have eaten at the buffet a couple of times and any money we saved was spent there. If I lived here there would be no need to eat at the hotel because there are so many choices.

I hope I have given everyone a sense of our trip. I have always enjoyed reading other blog's and I hope my family has gotten a good idea of what is going on with us. It has truly been a trip of a lifetime.

More Pictures

That wall at Chung Yi is now very special to me because my daughter's pictures are all over it!

The Roller Coaster

So much to experience in one day. I do not honestly know where to start. We were all a little bit nervous and none of us slept well. We woke up and ate breakfast at the buffet in the hotel and then met Sally from FFC in the lobby of the hotel at 9:30 and headed to Chung Yi. At first I think they were a little overwhelmed that there were so many of us. I have to say that Sally and the staff at Chung Yi are just remarkable people. They made the day memorable and I am forever grateful for how they prepared Katie for this day. Dawson and his foster mother and sister were the first ones we saw. That is where the camera catastrophe began. Janel had accidentally left her video camera at the hotel(we are more concerned with getting our gifts to the orphanage.) When I took out my camera to take pictures for Janel it died. So, my new advice is double check your battery in your camera before you head to such an important event. Next the kids(Trey, Alex, and Lizzy) and I went to meet Katie's birth father and grand uncle(an opportunity I did not expect to have.) I don't know quite to put it all into words. No matter what way you look at it, it's just plain hard. That is so many emotions to experience at one time. It is draining but, at the same time it is a memory I will cherish for the rest of my life. After that we met with Katie's birth mother and grandmother. Again another moment hard to define. It is awesome to know that Katie looks like a combination of both of her birth parents. I am thinking she got the best from both of them. We were there when Katie said her final(at least for now) goodbyes. Things like that change you. It made the day more special to have the kids with me. They are awesome people and they have claimed Katie and she has claimed them too. One thing I know is that I am blessed.

While we were visiting with Katie's family, Janel was having a rough time both Dawson and his foster mother had a rough time. His foster sister spoke English which Janel is grateful for. She seemed like a lovely girl. Again there are just no words to describe how many emotions you feel at one time and there is no way around it you just feel such pain when the little one you have waited for grieves so hard that you wonder if her will ever recover. It is hard not to have that feeling of,"Oh, What have I just done" and logic has no place in the moment unless there is someone else there and they can support you. I am sure Janel was thrilled to have Mom and Ashley there for just that reason. To live through such a moment is just indescribable unless you have experienced it yourself. Janel will have to post more on her visit later. I know that she is very grateful to Dawson's foster family for the love they gave him.

After that we got a tour of the orphanage, at least the girl's part. We got to meet the little girl that Jaclyn is adopting. She is just a doll and we are happy that she is coming to Florida (which is just what she wished for.) Again, I was impressed with the orphanage. I can just not say enough good things about the people there. Sally and Jessie translated for us and it was a remarkable day.

After that we left and went back to the hotel and then off to find McDonald's. We returned to our rooms and took a nap. Dawson woke and melted and so did Janel. I have to say that the evening ended better as he really seems to enjoy the kids and you can see that he is already bonding with Janel. I had told Janel of when I picked up Ben and how hard it was but, there is no way to be prepared for it.

For me I could not have ever dreamed of things going so well with Katie. She seems like such a sweet girl. She helped with Dawson and she has smiled the entire day and seems very happy to be with us. I will just enjoy that while it last.

Dawson is a doll and has such a big personality. Even though he had a hard time, he is interacting with the kids and smiling. He will be fine.

To add to the roller coaster of a day, I found out that our dog, Belle, died. We have had her for twelve years now and it is hard to lose a friend. She was a great and really more human than dog. She was always good to the kids and as Jim said the best dog we have ever had. She will be missed.